Mike Leigh is supposed to be one of those serious filmmakers, and I know I’ve seen a couple of his films but I can’t for the life of me remember a single one. What was it I saw? Secrets and Lies? Isn’t that a Bergman film?
Anyhow, I found the trailer for Happy-Go-Lucky to be incredibly grating. Oh god, another free-spirited kook who teaches us all that we should be positive! Happy! Whee! And her dumb outfits. But the reviews were good, so I decided to put it on my list. I should’ve gone with my instincts!
Now, I’m as much for being happy when you can. And I’m a quirky free spirit; sure, I can admit that. I freelance, for christssakes! I have not one, but TWO dogs! I have no real life plans! Who does that? Only crazy ladies. But this Poppy character isn’t quirky. She’s manic and delusional! You know this because at the bookstore she looks at a book, a title called Understanding Reality or something like that, and she says, “Ooh, no thank you.” And she spends a great deal of time cocking her head and giggling and basically acting like a confused bird. Bird in the actual sense, not in the charming cockney sense. ANNOYING!
Is it a territorial thing? Can two manic pixie dream girls not occupy the same space? Well, I’m NOT one. So shut up. But real happiness isn’t about being a kook. Life IS misery. You get hurt, bad things happen to good people, and even if things are going well, you know that someday you will die. I think that ignoring those facts is stupid. After all, isn’t happiness even better knowing that it’s in spite of all that? I’ve been so depressed I’ve wanted to die. My heart has been broken on several occasions. I read the news every day. I know how bad it gets. But I don’t want to erase that reality. How can you learn compassion if you ignore suffering?
I don’t want to see a movie about a woman who flits through life wanting people to be happy but is unable to do more than giggle and joke. Poppy doesn’t get below the surface until her racist driving teacher loses his shit. Yeah, Poppy– some people are f’ed up and unhappy and have deep, f’ed up feelings. It’s not like you tried to get to know the guy, or asked him any questions about why he feels the way he feels. How about yours? I don’t get the sense that her feelings are terribly deep. She’s not happy; she’s oblivious.
Also: the way she talks– unbearable!